Testimonials | Brenda Miller, Life Coach, Seattle

"I would like to highly recommend Brenda Miller and her coaching methodologies to anyone who is interested in recognizing and then manifesting their full potential, their own TRUTH. For me, Brenda's coaching is a powerful tool that directs me to my inner knowledge about what is true for me. From there I can make decisions and take action. Without Brenda's guidance my "shoulds" can get in the way of my inner knowing, and I might circle around the same issues without creating movement for years.

During the coaching calls, it seems that there is a "powerful space" that is synergistic with the relationship between Brenda and myself but adds something more to our relationship. This "space" allows the work to be more than just conversation; it offers and encourages my growth and my transformation in every coaching call.

Brenda has a tremendous amount of life experience and has walked a long path to her own enlightenment. She has done the work and is able to offer wonderful tools for growth to complement her coaching work. Each one of these tools has been exceptionally valuable.

I had wanted to hire a coach for a long time but waited until just the right person presented into my life. I am so grateful to have Brenda's support and highly recommend her to you! Good luck along your path to your true self

-L. R., MS, L.Ac.
Owner, Roots & Branches Day Spa

"I've gone through many changes in my life in the last 12 months, but nothing has been as powerful as the ability to improve my life by focusing my own power. Through the coaching of Brenda Miller, I have been able to do this. Without coaching, this would not have been possible. Working with Brenda has made it possible for me to fine-tune some of the areas in my life that I have wanted to improve. I would not have considered coaching unless I could connect with the right person - Brenda is the right person for me. Because I can open up to her, I can be more open myself."

-W.M., Sales and Marketing Manager

"Brenda, I wanted to thank you for the help you have given me. I have always done the best in life when I have had a great coach and the past three months have been just great, no, not great, unbelievable! I had a great Gymnastics coach when I was very young and he became a great friend. I had a great High school basketball coach and I grew a great deal from his help. I have been lacking a great coach since then. Now that I think about it, how did I go that long without one?

I have been exposed, because of my profession, Chiropractic, to a large number of practice management coaches. They have all seemed pretty good, but there always seemed to be something missing. The thing that was missing was that they were not really coaching me. I got information from them, which helped my practice and my professional life, but they did not coach me.

I now realize that, to be coached is to have someone help me find those gifts and skills already within me that I had lost sight of or didn't even realize were there. A coach is not a cheerleader, but can be your biggest fan. A coach is not there to discipline, but to help you understand why you may have lost your self-discipline. A coach is there to help you see your dreams, put them into action, and then realize them.

Brenda, you have done all of that for me and for that I am truly grateful. In my practice I tell all of my patients that there never has been a doctor, in the history of doctors, to ever cure a patient. The only one that can cure you is you. The job of a doctor is to help a patient eliminate the interference that is preventing them from healing themselves. I am so thankful that you helped me realize this in my life, too. A coach is not going to do the work for me or get me to my dreams; a coach is just there to help bring out the talent already there.

Brenda you have been a wonderful coach to me, and a true friend, for that I am truly happy."

-S. J. F., Doctor of Chiropractic

"The time we spent together as coach and student has had a tremendous impact on my life and career. I used to think, 'what do I need a coach for?' Now I truly wish our paths had crossed sooner. You helped me realize a potential in myself that continues to grow and amaze me. It is said that when the student is ready the teacher will appear. You not only appeared, but also challenged me to raise the bar and reach heights that would never have been possible without your passion for coaching and great listening skills. My 'gremlins' know better than to knock on my door! Thank you for believing in me."

-R.G., Market Learning Manager/Trainer

"Coaching with Brenda Miller is a remarkable experience. She told me I only had to commit to three months of coaching to begin with and nine months later I can't see myself ever not having a coach. It seems like the more I learn about me, the more I want to learn. Sometimes I don't have a specific issue at our appointed time to meet. However, I always hang up the phone at the end of that kind of session feeling amazed at what I discovered about myself or life in general.

I had doubts at first, about doing this coaching on the phone instead of face to face. Brenda assured me that if I was willing to give it a shot, I might get as much - if not more - value on the phone. Well, she was right about that. Our time together is very focussed, without distraction, and I get to talk to her while I'm in my pajamas (sometimes)!"

-K.L., Business Owner and Entrepreneur

"Working with Brenda Miller as a coach has been a Divinely magical experience. It is as though she is collaborating with my Higher Self, as she was able to assist me in creating a personal and global vision for myself. At the time, I did not realize exactly what it was.

The most remarkable part of this higher vision for myself became clear to me recently when I was asked by my web designer what my mission was. Thanks to Brenda's questions a few weeks earlier, my answer was immediate and effortless. This was truly empowering and I am grateful for Brenda's guidance with aligning me with my intentions and with creating the life I know I was born to live."

-A. D. S., Author & Artist

"Over the last several years, I have spent a great deal of my time engaged in personal discovery and development. Through workshops, seminars and reading countless books on self-discovery, I have been exposed to just about every major personal and spiritual development tool available. I am now a Reiki Master, a Certified Professional Coach, an independent business woman and basically a much happier and more peaceful human being than I was when I left the corporate world. Each and every tool has helped me develop incrementally and some tools have really accelerated the process. The Radical Forgiveness work I did with you, Brenda, is one of those powerful tools that should be an essential part of everyone's personal development.

I firmly believe that for an individual to be healthy, physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually, Radical Forgiveness is the vehicle of choice. I know I have held onto many old wounds from my past that I never realized were keeping me from having it all in my present. Working with you on just some of those old issues has had such a huge impact on my present that I am now soaring. If everyone could understand how leaving energy around past hurts can detrimentally affect their current life, people would be doing this work out of necessity. What a difference it makes to live in the present without still feeling hurt by an old wound from twenty or thirty years ago. I feel strong, free and no longer a victim of anyone. This is a powerful place from which I can create the life I really desire. Brenda, thank you for your knowledge, training, and ongoing support. I will never just move past an incident again and lie to myself that I am "over it". You and a Radical Forgiveness worksheet are my tools of choice. I so enjoy being the master of my life and not the "victim"."

- K. B., Certified Professional Coach & Reiki Master

"Brenda, thank you so much for being a part of my life. You will forever hold a piece of me. With your guidance I have found great understanding, awareness and a willingness to feel beyond my borders. Your support has ignited my spirit.

As I understand it a part of your mission is to teach. You have taught, healed and exposed my soul to light. For this I will everlastingly be grateful. When the time is right I will return to coaching with you. Know that until then you will be present within me."

- R.S., Business Owner

"In the short amount of time that Brenda and I chose to enter into a coaching relationship, I have experienced phenomenal expansion of my perceptions of life - my life - and have been shown the tools to empower my life through forgiveness on the deepest level; to go deeper than I dared on my own. Brenda assists in guiding an individual, who is ready, to the core of a situation with all of the support, compassion, determination to see one succeed in their life. And I must stress compassion.

I whole heartedly believe in and feel a deep sense of gratitude for the work that you do, Brenda. I look forward to continued coaching with you. This could become addictive!"

- L.M.S., Host of CONTACT Talk Radio

"Brenda Miller has helped me get to the "core" of myself and work my way from the inside to the outside. She has helped me to greatly reduce stress in my life by assisting me to modify my behavior."

-S.W., Recruiter and Staffing Agent

"In the past few months I have seen a huge difference in the person that I am. I have become more confident of where I am and with where I'm heading. I do not allow myself to beat myself up as much. I am not spending a lot of my time worrying about what might happen. Instead, I find myself excited about what could or will happen.

I have gone from someone who could not move forward because of fear to someone who pushes forward to new and exciting heights. I am becoming happier. I can't wait to see where I am in six months from now!"

- K.U., Owner of Realty Executives Quality First

"Brenda Miller's coaching was like a rocket propelling me into the next phases of my life. Her services are invaluable."

-D.H., Licensed Massage Therapist & Birth Doula

"Brenda Miller challenges and encourages me to get the most out of life by providing me, on a regular basis, with the tools and support necessary to focus on my personal and professional goals, while experiencing the present moment. I am now capable of identifying and overcoming obstacles that have hindered my growth and my ability to meet my objectives.

My mental and physical energy is reaching heights I did not think possible, and I now maintain the clarity to increase self-awareness.

Brenda has empowered me to celebrate every minor achievement and forgive myself for setbacks along the way."

-J.F., Screenwriter

Notes from a Life Coaching client after a Radical Forgiveness Coaching Process:

"What a profound impact our last session had on me. I mentally went somewhere last Monday that was totally outside of my physical body. I have been sitting above myself watching my life play back to me. I had read about this out of body kind of experience many times and believed in souls living a life that has only a portion of them lived on this earth but I never fully felt it in my heart or connected to it in my soul.

Brenda, this forgiveness process has begun to unlock the love I was holding in my heart for fear of being hurt. After the session I had an entire day and a half of ultimate quietness in my mind and peace in my heart. I had no more tears and really felt no emotion whatsoever, not happy not sad, not angry, nothing. When that stillness lifted I immediately felt all my senses were more acute. Music was more alive, nature was more beautiful, people I encountered were friendlier and I was genuinely happier - way down at the core.

I am not looking at life the same; no longer thru the eyes of a grieving child. I don't feel like I have to be on my guard because I think life is going to hurt me. I believe I have begun to understand how to accept life gracefully as an adult. I feel the hugeness of finally understanding that I am love and that love goes beyond my emotional needs. I feel ready to accept the uncertainty of life and to let go of trying to control my life and the flow of my love. I have a huge unending supply of love to give and I do not want to continue to put labels of right and wrong on my loving feelings but want to be able to follow love where ever it leads me. God is love and I am love, there is oneness, and I finally understand it is not of this physical world which we are now manifested as. My spirit has been sent here, just like all others, to learn a lesson and not for the everyday drama of life but to see the true spiritual meaning behind the circumstances.

Brenda, I am so appreciative you volunteered to come into my life to assist me in learning my lesson of victim hood.

In the beginning if someone would have told me I would enter this process for career coaching and emerge with a total connection and reclaiming of my soul I would have told them they were crazy. I am so thankful I have had the courage to go where I have been divinely guided and remain open to the flow of life. I know there are no short cuts and God does not make mistakes."

-G.L., Tax Accountant

Radical Forgiveness Ceremony Testimonials

Hello Brenda,
I wanted to take a minute to thank you for the experience of the Radical Forgiveness ceremony. It was a powerful, healing and nurturing process. I came without anything specific to forgive, just knowing that I wanted to clear out anything in my system that could stand in the way of my own prosperity and contribution to world peace. I discovered, as the ceremony unfolded, that you covered every possible corner of my psyche in excavating things that called for forgiveness. I felt so moved by the intimacy and safety of the process. It is absolutely irresistible in its simplicity and you were masterful in guiding everyone to a place of safety and trust immediately so that the work could be done. I was most deeply touched by the universality of the pain we, as humans, experience. It was as if one heart was beating to a unified rhythm, and each person's individual pain was mine. I know this work is making an incredible impact on the world in its healing and peace promoting intention. Thank you for the opportunity to participate. I enthusiastically recommend everyone to this process.

Warm regards,

-J. R. Certified Professional Life Coach

"My sister and I attended the Radical Forgiveness Ceremony at East-West book store. Our relationship has altered 180 degrees since that day. My sister used to treat me like dog doo. Now she treats me with respect and ease. I and everyone who knows us is very impressed with the change. What a joy to be able to relax around her."

–B.D., Registered Nurse

"To anyone considering participation in the Radical Forgiveness Ceremony, I have one strong recommendation: JUST DO IT!

The most singular beauty of the ceremony is it's effectiveness for all participants. All you have to do is "show up" and the rest is done for you by the design of the program and the absolute truths contained in the theory of Radical Forgiveness.

It was just so obvious that real healing was going on for me and my fellow participants. I could see the release, relief and joy in their faces as they completed the process. And for myself, I have a lightness of being and sense of everything being right with the world that follows me. Thousands of dollars and weeks of direct therapy will not produce the same result.

Do yourself and your loved ones a favor. The entire universe will be served by your investment in yourself."

J. W., Consultant